So there I was, sharing a wonderful dinner with the recently "minted" Mrs. Backouris, her mum-in-law and Loni at the Fifty Forks restaurant, at the Art Institute of Orange County. I was sharing a story about something random I began doing about a month ago. When I shared my story it had been brought to my attention I hadn't said anything prior to my telling of this story. You see, I mentioned to Long, a little over a month ago, that I wanted to take random, out of work-down on their luck, people out to lunch. I just didn't want to brag about it. There's nothing to brag about. I just hate eating alone. =) I wasn't trying to accomplish anything and I wasn't expecting anything out of this. I've been doing this a month and I've managed to take only one stranger out to lunch… I know, I know. It's a rousing rate of success.
Anyway, what I've been doing is just posting on Twitter and on Facebook, asking, randomly, if someone wanted to go out to lunch with me. The only requirement I asked was that the person be unemployed. I'd meet them for lunch and pick up the tab. Easy. Well, people are weird. After some disturbing messages from a user so-called "Ernest Morningwipe" I was worried and slightly disturbed, yet I persisted.
That's when Jeff, an unemployed Civil Engineer, reached out to me and stated his desire to do lunch. He was a pretty normal guy, save for this crazy handle bar mustache that he'd been growing because, well, he had the time to grow it.
I imagine Jeff's story isn't too different from a lot of people struggling in today's economy, trying to make ends meet and survive. Jeff's been unemployed for six months, but he had done a few interviews on some recent leads he's gotten from friends and former colleagues.
Jeff remained cheerful and he was a really social guy. He thought it was odd that I'd invite someone out to lunch and pay for it. We discussed the "why" of it all. I didn't really have a good answer, as it was on a "just-because" whim, if you will.
He said, "Hey, that's cool with me, man. As long as you're not pushing Scientology on me I will eat of some free fish tacos." We had a laugh about that one, before I asked him if he'd like a free "stress test." More laughter followed.
He and I didn't have a lot in common, really, but we both had a lot to talk about. He's engaged, but has had to put marriage plans on hold for the time being. It was interesting to here his story and how he's coping. I think what really stuck with me was his attitude; he wasn't desperate or down on life or himself. He was simply making sacrifices where he could and just manages to keep plugging away and try to make things work.
You see, there's something that I've been told, that I say to others because I believe it myself: "Things will work out because there's no other choice; they MUST work." That is, when we're pinned against a wall we still have to DO something. I don't think I'm making sense, but all I'm trying to say is that things will work out in some way or other, perhaps not the way we'd like, but, in the end, things work out… Like it or not. Having that in mind has kept me sane when I'm stressed out. For Jeff, it just seems like he knows and I appreciate that attitude.
Time to Put on the Big Boy Pants
So I’ve been designing web sites for a while now, for profit, but I’ve been doing web design and related nonsense for nearly ten years. That is crazy to me; my first site was completely hand coded, powered by notepad. Oh how I hated the process! Now, it’s a funny footnote in my life as I continue to develop my skills and myself.
About three or four years ago I decided to get more serious with things, became a sole proprietor and took to doing web design for real, that is, make some money doing the thing that’s given me so much joy. Today, I look at the line in the sand and see where I am now. I have come a long way in my development as a designer and business person… Though, the latter could use a lot of work to be honest.
I put in a lot of work doing what I do and I’m proud of that and I wish I was doing it as my only job, instead of splitting time doing storage and dp related work, which, don’t get me wrong, I love, just not as much you, you see. Always and forever… =) (Kudos to you if you caught that ref’)
This month I pushed forward and created a corporate identity for my business. I don’t need one just yet, but it’s a good idea because I can go corp to corp with other companies on other freelance opportunities, something that I’ve lost gigs to in the past. Needless to say I’m super excited about it. The company is named “DigiSavvy.” The company will continue to focus on web design and development, but will also add SEO marketing and Social Media Strategy development to the portfolio as well.
My goal is to work at this full time within three years. The clock starts on 3/31. I'm already nervous but very excited about the prospect of doing only my passion for a job.
For now, I’m getting the logos and biz identity stuff squared away, doing research and getting the business not-so-fun-stuff taken care of. I literally cannot wait to get going with this!
As always, pay attention to who you might know that needs help with making a site, existing site or just needs help or questions answered regarding social media or online marketing just send them my way. Pretty, pretty please! You get a free cookie* if you do.
Taking a deep breath – Wish me luck!